What is loving Yourself ?

                  What is loving YOURSELF ? 


Whatever you are accept that , God has made in the best beautiful way in which you will look the most beautiful and unique person in the world.


We often hear from people that Love yourself
We hear on social media quotes , books , you tube videos. But how many of them actually  define , elaborate , simplify What does it actually mean ? 

Well being so many options to get it understand. Even though I am confused. Many people tell , many things according to their philosophies , logics and knowledge. But  things are better understood in simplistic manner. Which fits in everyone's perspective and easy to describe to anybody else. 

So let me elaborate for you and for me as well. 

Loving yourself is fitting in your skin first of all. Loving you physical attributes in every way possible . No matter what they are  dusky , dark complexion , long height , short height, thin , skinny , fat etc. Whatever you are accept that , God has made in the best beautiful way in which you will look the most beautiful and unique person in the world.

So , Well this is about the physical loving about yourselves. 

When it comes to frustration , anxiety , people offending you then this loving yourself comes into action. 

Be with your mental peace,  know more , learn about people , listen to them , take interest in them. That is how will explore yourself also.  Who is offending you , being mean to you, don't take over your mind because its about yourself , about your mental peace. Taking it over onto your mind would  spoil it leading to frustration , stress and so on.   


Don't think of ego, think about pride . That is what is what self respect is. If things or people are making you angry , reply thinking of your pride. In that manner you will also not hurt yourself and not the other person. Situation will be in control. Sometimes thats what I do for myself and that really helps.   


I know it's kind of tough if we applicate it in real life. In this practical world , philosophies hardly work. But at least we can try not to applicate it fully, 100%. But at least we can try to life a life in this way also. 


Most importantly , that is beneficial for us. It's not about changing yourself but developing  yourself. Thats what  matters. 






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